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Postby crod1010 » 28 Jul 11, 10:27 am

why do you always have to be with someone why cant you just have commitment to have sex with that one person but be able to date others. But only because this person is really good in bed is that bad that I'm being selfish and I don't want to date this person but I do want a sex relationship with them.. whats your thoughts?
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Re: sex- relationship

Postby Jack Flash » 28 Jul 11, 12:27 pm

As long as you don't mind if that person has sex with other people. And you both understand and agree to the ground rules - I don't see a problem


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Re: sex- relationship

Postby Don't Blink » 29 Jul 11, 11:45 am

crod1010 wrote: I don't want to date this person but I do want a sex relationship with them.. whats your thoughts?



I am available for casual sex the 1st Tue of the month between 9:00 and 12:00pm and every other Thur between 1:00 and 3:00am. :mrgreen:
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Re: sex- relationship

Postby mugley » 29 Jul 11, 7:19 pm

:laughingup: I can give you much better hours than that and huh men have done that for years so I don't see a problem there :twisted:
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Re: sex- relationship

Postby cerina » 22 Aug 11, 10:19 pm

I don't see a problem with it as long as both people are happy with the arrangement and that it works both ways. And as long as both take sensible precautions, like using condoms EVERY time with EVERY person.
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Re: sex- relationship

Postby Ice Queen » 15 Apr 12, 3:45 pm

cerina wrote:I don't see a problem with it as long as both people are happy with the arrangement and that it works both ways. And as long as both take sensible precautions, like using condoms EVERY time with EVERY person.



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Re: sex- relationship

Postby Spirit of Desire » 15 Apr 12, 4:43 pm

This calls for SPoD storytime.

Names have been omited (because I dont want you to know which of the people I was)

Person A makes it clear that the relationship is nothing but sex.

Person B agrees to this but only because they think it will make sure they can have a relationship in the future.

Person A has a fantastic time having sex with a few people and knows they will always have person B waiting for them.

Person B doesn't have sex with anyone else knowing that the only person they want is person A.

Person A slowly starts falling for person B.

Person B slowl realises that they have no chance with person A and starts having sex with others.

Person A doesn't like that person B is having sex with others, even though they were.

Bad experiences happen from what could have been a simple relationship.
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Re: sex- relationship

Postby cerina » 15 Apr 12, 6:59 pm

You are so right, SPoD.
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Re: sex- relationship

Postby mugley » 15 Apr 12, 7:33 pm

sounds like par for the course to me


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Re: sex- relationship

Postby Brandy » 15 Apr 12, 10:18 pm

hmmmmm sex without feelings????

I could never do that.. Call me old fashioned....

But don't call me OLD!
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Re: sex- relationship

Postby mugley » 15 Apr 12, 10:34 pm

I've always heard that a woman has to feel loved to have sex, and a man has to have sex to feel loved
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Re: sex- relationship

Postby Brandy » 15 Apr 12, 10:37 pm

mugley wrote:I've always heard that a woman has to feel loved to have sex, and a man has to have sex to feel loved


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Re: sex- relationship

Postby mugley » 15 Apr 12, 10:39 pm

because we both love to have sex :mrgreen:
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Re: sex- relationship

Postby Brandy » 15 Apr 12, 10:43 pm

Soooooooooo very true!
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Re: sex- relationship

Postby GoodFeeling69 » 09 May 12, 12:20 pm

crod1010 wrote:why do you always have to be with someone why cant you just have commitment to have sex with that one person but be able to date others. But only because this person is really good in bed is that bad that I'm being selfish and I don't want to date this person but I do want a sex relationship with them.. whats your thoughts?


This is something thats bothered me most of my life. I've been married for 2.5 years now but I'm so totally bored. I want experimentation, different partners (female and male), excitement, passion (that Im gonna rip your clothes off here and now kinda thing... or even better I can't wait to get inside... undo jeans and suck!). I don't want to hurt my husband but I know its inevitable I'm going to have to let him know what I need to do. I can't control my urges anymore. I hope this doesn't offend anyone!
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Re: sex- relationship

Postby ScornedVixen » 09 May 12, 12:52 pm

I can understand where you're coming in from. Married for 8 years this year and most of the time I'm plain bored. Mark is a good man but freaking selfish, he doesn't think about what I need or anything. I stick to fantasies but getting bored of that too!

There's nothing remotely interesting or cool about me.
How cool and interesting was that?!


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Re: sex- relationship

Postby GoodFeeling69 » 09 May 12, 2:22 pm

Exactly SV, fantasies have been keeping me in the marital bed for the last year but theres only so many times I can use my imagination to get off without really wanting the touch, taste and feel of reality. I love my husband so much, but Im just not sexually attracted to him anymore. We haven't had sex for a year and when we kiss one another its more of an 4-5 second, lips closed smooch. I've always been a highly sexual person but when I met him I fell so in love with him for the wonderful man that he is and the way he treats me that the obvious lack of passion was dismissed as something to worry about later. Never ever thinking it would become so much of an issue. I have 2 men in my life that I can be with at any time and believe me I've been sooo tempted many times but my Husband doesn't deserve it all just because Im selfish and want some dirty f%ck session. God I need it though!!!!! :eek:
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Re: sex- relationship

Postby mugley » 09 May 12, 6:30 pm

make it three :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
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